The stressors of everyday life can be too much to bear for some people. In unfortunate cases, they may turn to illegal drugs or abuse prescription drugs to cope. Not only can these highly addictive substances interfere with a productive and healthy life, but they could lead to much more serious health issues as well. When confronting a person with an addiction, some well-meaning people unknowingly take maladaptive approaches based in shunning, punishment, or anger. By learning how to help someone struggling with drug addiction, you can avoid these pitfalls and possibly aid in a successful recovery.
Helping a Child
As a parent, one of the most difficult discoveries you can make is that your child has become addicted to drugs. We live in a time where access to more and more powerful opioids has never been easier, and northern Ohio lies in the heart of the region most ravaged by heroin, oxycodone, fentanyl, and other similar narcotics. Confronting your child and addressing the issue requires a delicate tightrope act of compassion and discipline. While you must make it clear that this behavior is unacceptable, too draconian of a response—such as kicking them out of the house—could only lead them further into abuse. Once you’ve intervened, you may need to test your children for drug use to ascertain that they’re staying clean.
Helping a Friend
If you have reason to believe a close friend is struggling with addiction, you owe it to yourself and your friend to intervene. You may find that there is strength in numbers—don’t try to approach your friend yourself when you could involve more of your shared friends and acquaintances for support. Discuss your concerns and worries while being supportive and making sure they know you can be a resource as they recover. As one would with a family member, avoid using bribery or threats, which could turn out to be counterproductive.
When Initial Strategies Fail
Whether you’re helping friends or family members, words of wisdom and informal support groups may not be enough to help someone struggling with drug addiction. Young people dealing with addiction issues may need dedicated support groups or even inpatient treatment. Recommend support groups to a friend and offer to accompany them for moral support.
Don’t Forget To Look Out for Yourself
Playing a role in a friend or loved one’s recovery from addiction can be physically and mentally taxing. Don’t forget to practice self-care throughout the process. Beware of placing all the responsibility for a positive outcome on yourself; know that, as helpful as you can be, you are not a specialist.
