You don’t just love your mom on Mother’s Day or other parent-related holidays—your mom should know that you love her every single day of the year. If you’ve felt disconnected from your mother lately, you may need to put some extra effort into showing her how much you care and how much you appreciate the work she’s put in for you. If your mom is impossible to read as far as presents, one of these other ways to show your mom you care will be sure to leave her feeling thankful that you’re her child.
Go Out Shopping With Her
No matter how old you both are, you’re never too old to help your mom shop. Whether you’re buying groceries or shopping for home goods, it never hurts to have a second pair of eyes and hands while out and about. Your mom may need to buy some things that require a second opinion, such as clothes or hardware for around the house. Take your shopping spree one step further by paying for her cart at checkout, and she’ll really feel the love.
Remember Her Birthday
It may seem like a simple task, but not every child remembers their parents’ birthdays. If you have a notoriously poor memory, remember her birthday this year by keeping it in your phone, on your fridge, and on any calendar you use every day. Think ahead to plan the perfect birthday party with her friends and any family members who want to come along. Get her the perfect gift, whether generic or relevant to her interests, and she’ll have one of the best birthdays in her recent memory.
Help Her With Chores
In a similar vein as going shopping with her, helping her do chores around the house is an especially effective way to show your mom you care. Think of any projects that she still needs to do, particularly more difficult tasks like renovation plans or cleaning out storage areas, and surprise her with a visit to tackle some of the chores on her list. It can also help them begin working toward downsizing their house to move to a retirement home or a smaller home.
Sometimes, all your mom needs is a phone call to let her know someone cares about her—because many people do care about her. Open a conversation and ask her what she needs help with or wants to do. She may honestly let you know how to make her happy and show your love for her if she needs it.